Post by UttuqXul on May 25, 2018 6:59:52 GMT -5
What the student did recently in Santa Fe, Texas was of course an unbelievably bad decision- no level of personal frustration or grief would have justified such. Seeing as this is the correct viewpoint or regard which we should have on the matter, it might seem irrelevant to explain regarding "possibly extenuating" or "possibly slightly extenuating" circumstances, but there is an issue or two which could be cited as increasing the probability of such an awful occurrence; most probably correct to cite. The viewpoint of the Insightful might currently be gravitating towards the opinion that no fruitive relationship between two high school students is really possibly, this aeon- although one may feel attraction... there is and has been a basic social formatting problem, or weak point: It would be better not to have co-ed high schools. One's immediate reaction to this might be, "But that would make relationships between the young even more difficult, troublesome and uncommon!?"- and herein lies a mystery, I think. A social formatting of this nature causes there to be a high level of availability between the genders, students- this availability not only tends to lead to considerable boredom between them, but even bad or negative feelings (one reason for the latter being the report of the bad experiences, losses. damage to individuals and their interests, stories which filter down to us from the past aeon...)- this doesn't help in the matter of possible relationships, but actually makes it worse, I say! A high school gender separation shouldn't involve any strict rules about communications nor the basic social fluency; the understanding should exist that two going around openly or dating, with any frequency, should best have defined nuptial plans ("Going Steady" is a term which may be forgotten, New Aeon); those deciding on a lovers relationship as at any age should as always (not well understood, ostensibly) be hidden from social view and cognizance, in this; otherwise can lead to great loss, suffering, personal damage, etc.... perhaps most importantly, failure of relationships. This use of the term "available" is characteristic of the Toltec shamanic guru lineage didacticism, as I understand... It is really a Mystery, similar to The Heissenberg Principle in physics!